Here is my answer to that often-asked job interview question... sometimes - never - maybe - it all depends. You may think that's an indecisive response, but few things have concrete, no diversion, answers, especially when it's your future and financial security at stake.
Many people assume that lunchtime is a great choice for a job interview. I mean, who doesn't like to eat, and as a bonus, get your meal for free, right? But, before you say "yes" to a lunchtime interview, think about this... There might be a "dark" side too. Both the interviewer and the interviewee have risks in this career game. Since both parties are trying, wanting to win, both have some high stakes in the process too.
Imagine this scenario:
The Interviewer says.....
"How about us having lunch to talk about your career decision?" Seems smooth; completely innocent; but what can go wrong is the reply coming through from our subconscious mind. Sure, we remind ourselves about the "not-to" list, but so often we get comfortable and laid back when consuming delectable morsels.
Be on YOUR guard every second...
Never relax your guard when you are seeking a new position with any employer. Most interviewing professionals know that "over lunch" can give them the advantage, because candidates often drop their guards without realizing it... to their ultimate regret.
So, watch yourself... be on your best behavior as you interact not only with the interviewer, but also with the wait-staff; the cashier; everyone you encounter in the restaurant.
The point is... even if the interviewer host lets his/her guard down with small talk or orders a "drink," it's NOT a good idea for you to follow suit. You're there to talk about your qualifications and expertise, to get to know the person, the company, to make a lasting impression. You're there to sell yourself as a professional candidate for the job. You are NOT interviewing for the position of "best buddy" with the interviewer.
It's been long ago, but I remember vividly meeting two guys from the New York office of a national firm. My Interview was held in a motel room, and their first question was... "want a beer?" Actually, I didn't "drink," so it was an easy no thanks. I'm not sure if this was a test or not; they enjoyed a couple themselves. Driving home, I felt certain I'd not gotten the job. But, to make a long story, short... I did get the job after all.
OK, back on topics... When your food comes, be sure to eat with utensils, not your hands, so you'll avoid embarassment or reveal poor eating habits. It may sound trivial, but it might just be a deciding factor in the job interview outcome.
Also, if you have a cell phone, leave it in your car and let calls go to your voice mail. Or, at the very least, put the phone on vibrate. This is just a common courtesy when having lunch, dinner, etc. with anyone.
So, in short, you CAN have a successful job interview over lunch... provided you use a little common sense and always keep your eye on the ball!
For more information on job interviews, particularly how to emphasize your skills during an interview, follow the link below my signature...
To your dream job success,
"Coach Don"
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